My ex-girl says that she loves me but she has an boyfriend.?
I have an ex which you have been concerned with given 2003. When you initial met(2003) you had the partner as well as she was single. So as time past you were together to about midst 2004. We had mislaid hit for the year, afterwards you got the pursuit as well as she worked there so you became friends again. During the seperation she got an beloved as well as changed in with him. But you regularly stayed in contact, hung out, talked, done out the little( no sex). In 2006 you proposed carrying verbal sex as well as afterwards she proposed observant she still desired me. Now the 2009 as well as she calls me each day, you still cling to out, still have oral. We additionally had sex 4 times in final 3months. She tells me which she loves me as well as which she is confused. At initial you was only reaping the benefits. But you find myself confused as well as in love. 1 time about the year ago he found out. She called as well as settled which she would no longer be means to speak to me as well as cried upon the phone about an hour. you all the time ask since she wouldnt leave as well as she says it not which easy. She pronounced which she loves us both in dual opposite ways. She pronounced she feels similar to herself around me. you know he buys her good things as well as pays her college fees as well as automobile note. But during the finish of the day im hurt, since i caring the good understanding for her. What am i to do with this disaster greatfully help
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Sooo… let me get this straight. You knew this girl was dating someone else & you still hooked up with her? And now you are upset because you have feelings for her again & she won’t leave her boyfriend?
Hon, I think that you need to rethink your priorities. What you’ve been doing is really, REALLY skanky. You were encouraging her to cheat on her boyfriend. I’m not saying that she’s blameless, but you could’ve been a real man & stepped away & found some other girl who wasn’t taken & started up a relationship. Heck, if all you wanted was sex then you could have easily found a f**k buddy. But you didn’t.
I mean, what are you trying to accomplish? Do you really think you’ll be happy with someone who you know is willing to cheat on their boyfriend? Do you really think you’ll still be interested in her after she’s no longer "forbidden fruit"? I kinda don’t think that you will be & then you’ll be saddled with someone that you really don’t want to be with & are now responsible for.
Do the right thing & just walk away from it all. I don’t think you can really call what you feel for her love, not really. If you were really in love with her then you would be willing to walk away & let her salvage her relationship. Obviously she’d rather be with him, especially since he found out & she was still willing to stay with him after that. If she’d really loved you & wanted to be with you, she’d have left him regardless of whether he was paying her bills or not. It doesn’t matter what he’s like- there is no good reason to cheat on anyone. If you aren’t happy then you should leave.
I think that you need to grow up & start thinking about getting some morals. What you’ve done is incredibly skanky & horrible. You’re pretty much ruining both of your lives right now, not to mention the life of the poor sap who is taking care of her. He’s the only innocent person in this whole mix. It sounds like he should chuck her out onto the street & go about his own life & try to find someone who isn’t going to sleep around on him constantly. On second thought, it sounds like the two of you deserve each other. The misery that you’d both inevitably feel when the "forbidden fruit" feeling wears off would serve the both of you right.
dude thats some messed up shit…ill say tho if you do have self respect i wouldnt play along any farther (figure of speech dnt get mad) but if you love her that much you may wanna try putting her directly on the spot and throw all your feelings out just to make sure its completlely out there and she realizes it (im not saying what u should do but this is what id do, have her make a direct choice then and there and if she doesn’t pick you well then the feeling is not mutual(idk if i wouldve wen that far myself tho) also make sure she realizes the fact that she may being bought off by him objects and other things really shouldn’t matter in my perspective
1. You knew she was with someone and you helped her cheat.
2. You were just using her to get some.
You were well aware of these two things from the start, and now it’s not so fun anymore once things got real by your own doing.
Even if it’s cruel, as far as I’m concerned you both are takers and deserve the situation you’re in.
A relationship that you desire does not come out of this situation, and she is not as confused as she claims to be. People don’t get confused or need time. Really when there are ‘questions’ about who to choose in a relaitonship they already know from the first second.
"I don’t know" means "I don’t want to hurt you with the answer"
She doesn’t want to be with you, she wants to fool around and hang out with you with nothing changing, but she’s not going to leave you for him.
Well she is cheating for one. If she cheated on him with you what makes you think she won’t do it to you if you were together. Move on and find someone else. She doesn’t love you enough to be with you then leave her alone. It is wrong what she is doing.
i know what its like bud…im going through the exact same thing and it hurts like hell..
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